I'm trying to understand what mine is, because I think I've got one.
Sometimes I envy people who knows exactly what they want, and just go for it.
Sometimes I envy people who knows exactly what they want, and just go for it.
What drives me seems to be to overcome my limitations. When being kids, that kind of attitude is natural. We keep trying until we can do something. We want to move, walk, climb and then climb trees and so on, depending on what we see others doing, or how curious or determined we are.
At some point, as grown ups, we realize that cannot do something, and give up, and try something else, or keep doing what we already know. At which point we give up seems to be quite personal.
Some people especially middle-aged men claim they only focus on delight. It seems mature to me, but still a bit strange. How did they come to that conclusion, and what have they been given up on the way?
Imagine that you are in a sports arena. A bunch of people are practicing something, some others are competing. A crowd is just watching, dreaming that they are in the game. Some others they lay down, smells the grass and the sweat from peoples sneakers, and say: I just love to be here!
Which ones of those are you? I think I am that idiot still practicing, competing and maybe wondering what the smell is outside of the arena. When I smell the grass it's because I'm biting it..
