It seems the one who pretends to be the most snobby is trying to cover up what he doesn't like about his family and where he comes from.
I suspect that the one that looks the most generous really have some problems with jealousy and so forth.
These things are not new, they are just hard to remember and sometimes difficult to understand...
Maybe we are as small children who are focusing on things they aren't really good at? When they don't know how to climb they will practice until can, and when they don't know how to walk they will keep trying ...
Maybe we all are overdoing things until we are on top of them...?
